Every person has certain things that turn him or her off when it comes to dating. They can range from pet peeves; like nail-biters, to bigger things; like lying or stealing. I have dated my fair share of guys, even some who had fell into some of my 'turn off' categories. None of those guys have stuck around, so perhaps you should always be aware of what turns you off, and make sure any potential partner doesn't possess any of these qualities.
Deal Breakers
Lying: You should never put up with a partner who constantly lies to you; it's very disrespectful. Make sure you tell your partner you'd be less angry if they came out and told you things, rather than lying and you finding out later.
Cheating: If a guy has a reputation for cheating, think twice before you date him yourself! Trust is very important in a relationship. If he does it once, chances are likely that he'll do it again.
Smoking: Who wants to kiss an ashtray? Also, cigarettes can kill, and surely you would rather date someone alive and healthy. Bear in mind the problems of second-hand smoke, too.
Acting stupid: Smart people who act silly around their friends can be a real turn-off. It's not cool for your partner to break the law just for fun. There is a point when things stop being funny and just become childish.
Hiding things: This is somewhat similar to lying and cheating, but just to emphasize that there should be trust in a relationship. If your partner has a problem, you should be able to talk about it.
Deal Breakers
Lying: You should never put up with a partner who constantly lies to you; it's very disrespectful. Make sure you tell your partner you'd be less angry if they came out and told you things, rather than lying and you finding out later.
Cheating: If a guy has a reputation for cheating, think twice before you date him yourself! Trust is very important in a relationship. If he does it once, chances are likely that he'll do it again.
Smoking: Who wants to kiss an ashtray? Also, cigarettes can kill, and surely you would rather date someone alive and healthy. Bear in mind the problems of second-hand smoke, too.
Acting stupid: Smart people who act silly around their friends can be a real turn-off. It's not cool for your partner to break the law just for fun. There is a point when things stop being funny and just become childish.
Hiding things: This is somewhat similar to lying and cheating, but just to emphasize that there should be trust in a relationship. If your partner has a problem, you should be able to talk about it.






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