Friends are what keep you going, the people who would hopefully support you through anything and love you no matter what. So, what happens when you find someone your friends don't like, or you date someone whose friends just don't want you around? What should you do if a friend has chosen, who you'd consider, an unsuitable partner?
It's tough to know whether to speak up if you don't like someone your friend is dating--most people would agree that you should be supportive regardless. If you really think there are potential problems, you could casually mention that you don't think the person is right for them, but then let it go. However, if you are worried that your friend could get hurt, then you should speak up or tell another responsible person that you think they're in trouble.
When your friends don't like your boyfriend or girlfriend, things can get really complicated. Often, it comes out of jealousy. Do you still see your friends as much as you used to? Do you still talk to them on the phone all the time like you did before you met your new partner? Consider that they might be missing you or could be feeling 'ditched.' If they don't get to see you as much as they used to, they may blame your new boyfriend or girlfriend.
You can always fix this problem by making time for them and including them on days you spend with your partner.
Bear in mind that if your friends don't like your new significant other, they probably have good reasons. If your friends have always supported you, then they will only want the best for you. It doesn't mean you should break up with your new partner right away, but do listen to their concerns. If you still don't agree, tell them that this is something you want and you hope they can support you. When friends don't like significant others, there is really no simple way to deal with it. It is likely to stay that way, but you can come to terms with it. Who knows, your friends might grow to love your partner.
It's tough to know whether to speak up if you don't like someone your friend is dating--most people would agree that you should be supportive regardless. If you really think there are potential problems, you could casually mention that you don't think the person is right for them, but then let it go. However, if you are worried that your friend could get hurt, then you should speak up or tell another responsible person that you think they're in trouble.
When your friends don't like your boyfriend or girlfriend, things can get really complicated. Often, it comes out of jealousy. Do you still see your friends as much as you used to? Do you still talk to them on the phone all the time like you did before you met your new partner? Consider that they might be missing you or could be feeling 'ditched.' If they don't get to see you as much as they used to, they may blame your new boyfriend or girlfriend.
You can always fix this problem by making time for them and including them on days you spend with your partner.
Bear in mind that if your friends don't like your new significant other, they probably have good reasons. If your friends have always supported you, then they will only want the best for you. It doesn't mean you should break up with your new partner right away, but do listen to their concerns. If you still don't agree, tell them that this is something you want and you hope they can support you. When friends don't like significant others, there is really no simple way to deal with it. It is likely to stay that way, but you can come to terms with it. Who knows, your friends might grow to love your partner.
