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Dating Games NOT to Play

Avoid these for a better love life!

Written by: A. Niranjan – Posted: Thu May 8th, 2008
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"Let's See How Jealous I Can Make You" (LSHJICMY)

Hmmm...the title should imply that this game is a dangerous one to play, especially if you really like the person that you are dating. First of all, this is a rather mean game to subject someone to, but secondly, it could make you lose the one you like.

Girls, I believe, play this game more than guys, at least in my experience. It's the game where you flirt with your classmate in front of your sweetie, but you look at your sweetie while you do it, judging how much of a reaction you can get out of him. Or, even worse, MySpace. Yes, we blame MySpace for the end of many relationships, and I am more than certain while you're reading this that you can think of an example of your own experience, or one of a friends. You can't help but notice that your boyfriend of girlfriend is always leaving all these comments filled with exclamations and winks. Why?! Don't get too riled up too fast, because they might be playing LSHJICMY. If they really were trying to be extra secretive, they'd just message each other.

Okay, so what do you do when it's your honey bunny playing LSHJICMY? Don't participate in the game! Instead, let them know, or ask (in a non-accusing manner), what's up with that. Say you get a little jealous. Honestly, they will probably be flattered. But explain that you'd rather not feel jealous at all. If honey bunny continues their bad behavior, it may be time to change that status to single, because if they don't care enough to respect your feelings, then you should be folding your cards.