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3steepdate738   , 33

from Decatur


The best way to Play The SMS Adult Dating Game

A couple of weeks ago, at a relaxing, uneventful Saturday afternoon barbeque, among the single girls decided to turn up the heat on conversation using a Adult Dating dilemma. "Why would a guy", she asked, as each and every man using a beer in his hand and no ring on his finger fidgeted nervously, "promise to get in touch with soon after a great first date, after which do practically nothing but send flirtatious SMS messages for the subsequent two weeks?"


Several rapid pondering cads created haste towards the barbeque to compliment the host on his steak flipping tactics and discuss last nights game. The rest of us found ourselves surrounded by a school of circling single white females, eyeing their prey over a fourth glass of bubbly. As a single male, I knew my probabilities of surviving this conversation had been remote. Ever so meticulously, I backed up towards the security of the kitchen door, mumbling something about a prime up.

Hidden behind the walls of my bachelor pad, having survived my near-eunuch encounter, I feel it really is now secure to offer you the inside scoop on how a guys thoughts functions (or does not operate) with regards to telephone Adult Dating procedures. Naturally, there are books that will let you know that Mars is not that into Venus, due to the fact he has the maturity of an eight year old and is actually searching for any Mother Earth. Theoretically, they may be fairly sound, but throw them into the real planet and they are about as valuable as a man holding a toilet brush.

I have some wonderful female close friends. Some single, some in relationships. Like you, they are all attractive, intriguing and intelligent women. Yet, you all endure from a widespread situation. I call it Men-agitus. You caught it the very first time some midget Romeo stole a kiss around the merry-go-round at pre-school morning break, and dropped you for any Tonka truck plus a sandpit by lunch. Consequently, you look to commit a significant portion of the lives analysing mens actions and words. Inside the case of communication, the answer is actually quite basic. Males do not genuinely take pleasure in speaking with ladies around the telephone. Ok, perhaps in the event the conversation turns just a little flirtatious our ears prick up, but for essentially the most component, the really believed scares us to death. Youve blackbelts in voice boxing. It is what you do. Your aim is to see if were capable of stimulating your mind with our least exercised organ. Our objective is usually to get off the phone whilst youre still interested enough to find out us once again.

In face-to-face land, we dont have to solely depend on our bogus communication capabilities. We are able to flash our boyish smiles, tenderly hold your hand, make stupid jokes, or attempt handstands. Something to distract you from what weve to say. As visual creatures, we really feel correct at home here. We can gauge your reaction to our antics, study the body language, and take peeks at your cleavage when you happen to be not searching.

On the phone, we really feel naked and exposed. At times we may possibly be. Once you quit talking, we are anticipated to reply, and we know youre listening intently with these inbuilt radars. We open our mouths and also the words are nearly as well terrified to come out. We are able to feel your analysing mind ticking over asking, "What did he imply by that?" "How is receiving your dog stoned funny?" amongst "mm hmm"s and deafening silence. Our self-confidence falters as we grasp for insightful comments and sweet anecdotes. It truly hurts our brains, alright?

Then along comes SMS, beep beeping like a beacon of light towards the shallow planet of manhood, supplying the ideal weapon against verbal interaction. We are able to make you really feel preferred while getting a beer with our mates in the pub. Weve got time to provide the perfect funny line. It enables us to absorb your probing queries and reply with self-assurance. Even end the conversation having a suggestive rendezvous, with out committing to a date, and still come out looking excellent.

You need to understand why a guy sends you endless text messages and never ever calls? Think about his mind as a refrigerator. If hes insatiable to get a taste of you the subsequent day, he slips you between his leftover pizza and six-pack of beer. If hes not that keen, youre his spaghetti bolognaise. A delicious dish, but he doesnt really want you two nights running. So hes place you on ice between the brunette behind the bank counter, as well as the redhead in the fitness center.

So what is the answer should you actually like the guy? Cease making it simple for him to keep you at arms length. Hes riding Message Street and there is no sign of targeted traffic. If you want him, you might have to turn the tables. It is time for you to get out on the party pies, and in to the pepperoni. It means taking the SMS game to the trenches. Exactly where the hunter becomes the hunted and one false move may be fatal.

Simons Recipe To Turn Swaggering Players into Begging, Pleading, Ground you Stroll on Worshippers in 4 Simple Methods!


Step Number A single - Resistance. In no way succumb to these naughty midnight messages. Hes drunk, alone and horny. Leave him to marinade a even though. Ignore for at least three days.

Step Number Two - Set The Bait. Send a brief reply telling him you have been busy, hope hes effectively, and youll catch up soon.


Step Quantity 3 - Be Patient As the Fish Nibbles. The male ego is easy pickings. When he messages, and he will, leave it a day before replying with confident, yet faint interest. Recommend he calls you some time, but not nowadays, as you are tired from all of your socialising of late. Note: make sure to use a word like socialising. Within the male thoughts this translates to "flirting, and possibly more, with all the competition."

Step Number 4 - Reel The Sucker In. His imagination is going to be operating wild by now. When he calls, be friendly but not over-enthusiastic. If he asks to meet you within the subsequent three days, stick him on a plate, glad wrap him, and plonk him behind your box of choccys and half completed bottle of bubbly. If he suggests next week, pull him off the hook, inform him to kiss your proverbial goodbye, and throw him back within the sea.

Now you could possibly be questioning why I am telling you all this. Do I believe its time one of us was ultimately sincere with women? Am I saddened by the pain women knowledge as a result of my thoughtless gender? Have I had adequate of consoling broken-hearted female friends on a Friday evening - when my program was to go out to get a couple of drinks, laughs, and be introduced to their gorgeous, promiscuous girlfriends? Did I hope that revealing sacred male secrets would offer a new angle for selecting up at parties? Yes, to all of the above. Hey, do not give me that appear...I am just a guy!


Now you know our game, it really is time for you to unleash hell.