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I think there are many women who need to be vocal to help themselves achieve orgasm. Do they moan to speed up their partner's climax? Do we know how a woman is "supposed" to react during sex? Are they always moaning with pleasure? Is moaning technically known as "copulatory vocalization"? Do they make noise, but not necessarily while they are having an orgasm? Check out the book "sex before dawn". It's a counter cultural perspective on sexuality. The book talks about women moaning to signal other men that there is sex going on and to come get some - a relic of our communal sex history. And of course for men, our ears and cocks are super sensitive to the sounds of sex. It's a great book. Lots of interesting ideas that run counter to the current Disney ideals.

Because women are naturally more orgasmic and feel more pleasure from sex compared to men,if they're feeling pleasure for real(and don't have dysfunctional sex drives and are doing it to not make you feel bad) moaning is an unconcious thing,it also spreads pleasure in more of your body...if you as a man practice techniques that are supposed to make you more orgasmic you will find yourself unconsciously moaning because the pleasure is also higher, on aneros forums you can find probably the most testimonials of men finding themselves moaning as a result of practicing with an aneros to develop more pleasure from their prostate.

It's simple. It is about training.  It's one of many 'that's right' signals she can choose from. That's all there is to it...it's a feedback signal. Learn about X4 Labs at https://erinjgz.wordpress.com/2016/07/26/why-x4-labs-extender-works/

Maybe I can provide a feminine perspective here. Speaking as a shy girl, the only way around this is with comfort, communication and exploration. In order to do that, you both need to keep an open mind and be observatory in the time you invest to explore. In this case, it's about her and what's it's gonna take to shatter those walls that's keeping her from fully enjoying the sexual experience and that's all mental.

I am a firm believer that everyone has a button that releases all inhibitions. Anyone who believes they don't obviously hadn't theirs discovered yet by a partner who cared to observe/read them. My fiance likes it when I dominate him in bed. That's *his* hot button. He never had to tell me this, I know this from learning his personality, porn habits and even to the kind of women that he finds attractive outside of me. A lot of learning is through observation. This applies even more to relationships. Learn more at http://www.jasminedirectory.com/ and https://blogs.botw.org/Health/Reproductive_Health/

Me, I'm a little bit harder to read because I'm in my head 98% of the time so communication in a relationship with me is imperative for its success so I'm assuming it's going to be the same for her. However, everyone has a tell through behavior. This is where your observation of her is going to have to come into play. I like it when a man is very defensive for me thus that could mean I like to be dominated and I write erotica about domineering males (which I do). Then you can use that to communicate with her about what gets her off. Confirm what you observe, so to speak, and take it from there.

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