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whanmb   , 31

from Tucson


Magnetic Messaging Your Way To Date a Girl

Don't bore her with a boring text that's going nowhere. It makes you seem like all the other guys who's been texting her all week. And if she's not texting you, don't flood her inbox with your mindless lame texts.

Use text messages to create intrigue and suspense. You can do that with magnetic messaging reviewed here. If you text her too much too soon, you'll only make her used to your texts. Don't talk to her too long over text, there's a better place for that, you know.

If you want to know her, do it in some other way. Don't show too much enthusiasm when you reply to her, too. In case it's your first text, you can send her a text sooner than you think. You don't want to wait too long when it's the first text, doing so will only make your chances worse.

Believe it or not, girls like it that you text her sooner than you think. Do it while she still remembers who you are and how she met you.

When your number pops again on her phone, she'll immediately know who you are. You'll also avoid the awkward message asking who you are. If she's really hot and goes out a lot, she probably has a lot of guys texting her.

Don't leave things to chance, thinking she'll remember you when you text her. And she'll lose any interest she had in you. When you're not the only one texting her, you need to stand out from the crowd. And it can't be anything lame either, you gotta start out right so do it right the first time. Remind her of the good times, the fun times she had when meeting you. That always seem to work great.

Get the good things going and don't cut it short even when you're just texting her. Simple isn't it. Told you. If you can remember something good or funny about her then use that. And before getting finger happy, think first if it's worth replying to or not. Ask yourself if the text you're about to send is exciting and different.

If you want to be sure, if it makes you laugh, she'll probably laugh at it, too.

Don't let your interest in her overflow, you won't be able to think clearly. Don't check your phone too often to see if she has replied. Your mistakes will pile up and you'll only lose her the moment that happens.

The dangers of this is clear as day, neediness and desperation gets a power up. You can even be exhibiting jealous behavior and that will kill any attraction she has for you. It can even make her think twice before meeting you again.

And that's not good. Think about it, if you don't even know that much about her, you can't be that jealous of anything in the first place. If you're not getting as much of her time as you like, that's no reason to be sad. Show her that you're different from all the other guy she knows.

Don't forget that there other girls on your phone better than her. And beware of sending anything too needy or anything needy at all. It can kill attraction instantly than any other way. Don't text her back immediately every single time. Take your time and let her wait, the world won't end when you do.

And of course, you don't want to send her too many text more than you need to.

Match her on that count and don't be any more than or only less. Don't get too happy with emoticons, either. Don't be texting her when you're drunk or bored or when you're not thinking clearly. Don't even attempt to send her anything that will get you some kind of validation. And don't risk getting into the friend zone by having mindless talks. Don't trip that trap and change subjects quickly.

Why not just tease her and build more attraction. GIve her the impression that you're always having fun. Be sure to be different and stand out from the rest of the guys she knows. Give her the fun and enjoyment she needs. Do this and she'll be thinking about you all night long.

Make her wonder if she's missing out by not being with you. Don't answer everything she ask no matter how important it is. Know that what's important is the personality you're showing her in every message in you send. You know you'll only bore her with questions, so don't do it. Just do something else.

You will begin to annoy her and you'll only get ignored. If you want her to respond that badly then be sure your personality shines with your message. Get her laughing, make her smile, make her look forward to receiving texts from you. A really lame joke can work for the initial text to get a good laugh.

But don't be too predictable with everything you do. Keep her guessing, too. So before you text her again, wait a couple of hours or even a day. This will make her think about you and makes her wait.

It also gives her some thrill of waiting for you next message. So be sure to remember this important point when you're texting girls. But be sure you're eliciting some good emotions in her. Be sure to get better and better at texting and using your phone. You dating life depends on it more than you know. Never lose hope even when you feel lost in the way things work. It can only get better and better.